That’s What I’d Like to Know. What Did You Do Wrong?

A young woman from my church sent me a text message, asking questions about addiction.  I don’t really remember what her questions were.  I just remember that when I responded to one question, I did so with sarcasm that only those who are in my situation, might pick up on….at least through texting.  I wasn’t thinking about […]

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It Works If You Work It

    My dad didn’t talk much about his father’s violent side. He didn’t have to talk about it for me to know. He wore the abuse like a deep cut, whose efforts to heal had worked long and hard to compensate, like growing tissue that is thick and tough in an effort to hide […]

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I think there’s a twelve step program for that…

A young woman recently called the office, concerned about her new horse. “Is this your first horse?”  I asked. “Yes.”  She said. “What kind of horse is she?”  I asked. “Oh, she’s a thoroughbred.”  She said.  Her voice was beaming. Thoroughbreds are strikingly beautiful animals.  I love the stories of a come-from-behind horse who isn’t expected to […]

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